We spend a lot of time talking about what’s wrong with the system. I think as we start to look towards a new year and begin to think about how we’d like to make changes to ourselves in the new year, it’s time to add patient responsibility to the list.
Yes, your doctor or midwife has responsibility to you. They need to provide you with sound medical advice that is evidenced based, they need to provide you a listening ear and open communications, they need to be there when you call for help or advice and many other things. Some people believe that their personal responsibility as a patient ends as soon as their bill is paid. This is far from the truth.
As a patient, you must be open and honest with your midwife or doctor. You should tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth, because if you don’t, you might be withholding key information that could mean a lot, even if you think its inconsequential. You need to be on time for your appointments and ready to discuss your questions and concerns. You also need to speak up and say what’s on your mind, even if that is something that you and your practitioner disagree on.
Remember, that in the end the relationship you have with the person you have hired to help you in birth is a two way street. They can only help you if you tell them what you need 0 even if that is a new practitioner. Being open and honest ensures that both parties have a positive outcome and a more pleasurable and safe birth.
Related links:
- 10 Questions for Your Practitioner in Pregnancy
- How to Choose a Doctor or Midwife
- 10 Questions to Ask Before You Have a Baby
- Switching Doctors in Pregnancy
Great advice! In addition Great advice! In addition to teaching about informed consent I have some variations that I think are easier for parents to think about (if they don’t have or can’t find a card).