Category Archives: Doulas

5 Lies Your OB Tells You

  1. I’ll be there for the birth.
    In reality, there is a group of doctors and/or midwives who take call. What percentage do they really make it to the birth? Now ask them to remove cesareans and inductions…

  2. I think your birth plan is great…
    They just have no intentions of following it… You want to know how they will react to your birth plans, ask others who used the same practitioner.

  3. You don’t need to take a childbirth class. I’m there to help you.
    But only as you actually give birth to the baby… Seriously very few practitioners, even midwives are there for every minute you’d need them. Hire a doula to cover those off minutes (or hours). Besides a good childbirth class can help you figure out what you want from birth and become familiar with the process.

  4. You should come in when the contractions are 10 minutes apart…
    Only if you like to watch paint dry. 10 minutes apart at the end of pregnancy is pretty early and might not even be real labor. Staying home until you’re emotionally and physically ready is probably best for mom and baby. Some women choose the 4-1-1 method: contractions 4 minutes apart, lasting at least 1 minute, for at least 1 hour.

  5. It’s for the baby’s health…
    Okay this one isn’t always a lie, but make sure when they say baby they don’t really mean “my malpractice provider,” “my golf game,” or the “convenience of” someone. Educate yourself about birth and getting informed consent – knowing the what, why, when, how and if not now laters…

Can you think of any?
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Patient Advocates

I recently found a site and blog called Every Patient’s Advocate with information on patient advocacy. It was quite interesting. Here’s the deal in my field, we already have a ton of patient advocates, probably more so than any other medical specialty out there – doulas.

Doulas are specially trained to help women and their families make decisions about their medical care during pregnancy through early parenting. Doulas help women research and find out all of their choices, not just the choices on the surface or readily offered by an eager doctor or midwife, but all of the choices. Doulas help women gain the information that they need to make informed choices that work for them – individualized care, not cookie cutter obstetrics.

Doulas can help with the following:

  • 50% reduction in the cesarean rate
  • 25% shorter labor
  • 60% reduction in epidural requests
  • 40% reduction in oxytocin use
  • 30% reduction in analgesia use
  • 40% reduction in forceps delivery


Information was obtained from Mothering the Mother: How a Doula Can Help You Have a Shorter Easier and Healthier Birth, Klaus, Kennell, and Klaus (1993).


In addition to doulas, think of how the childbirth educator serves as the educational arm of the pregnant woman’s life. Health education in general is taking a lesson from Lamaze and other leaders in the field of health education and trying to encourage patients to know something about what’s going on rather than blindly putting their faith in a fallible system.


Have you secured your patient advocate yet? If not what are you waiting for?
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Seeing Clearly Now

I’m home and just catching up. I’ve already expounded on the whole issue of prematurity as it relates to inductions and cesareans and about labor hormones from the DONA International Conference. But I thought I’d talk a bit more about some other things I did while at the conference.

Can I say how nice it is just to hang out at a conference and soak it all up? Everyone there had something interesting to say or share. I truly enjoyed it. I spent a weekend immersed in birth, with a small side track to go to a Harry Potter Party with my son (14) who was with me in St. Louis. I got to dance and sing and talk and learn. Some of the things I learned just made me drop my jaw with their beauty and simplicity.

One of the main things I saw was how important it is for women to make informed choices. Here’s the kicker – most women don’t feel like they have choices. That is really scary. We really need to start the conversation on how to get women to see that they have opportunities to make decisions for themselves and their babies. It’s not just about epidural or not, it’s about which place of birth and which practitioner – and why. That’s what transparency in maternity care is all about – women seeing clearly what they are being offered by whom. Continue reading

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