VBAC from a Care Provider’s Perspective

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What is it really like to be a hospital care provider attending VBACs? Janelle from Birth Sense describes it in this post submitted to the ICAN VBAC Blog Carnival.

The whole post provides a very rational, no nonsense description of the actual problems that care providers face without an emotional “WE’RE ALL GOING TO BE SUED AND EVERYONE IS GOING TO DIE AND YOU JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND RISK!” She calls upon providers of modern obstetrics to “speak up on behalf of women who want VBAC and insist that realistic, evidence-based guidelines are instituted.”

Furthermore, Janelle points out something that would probably shock the public about hospitals. The “special” mandate that an OB remain in the hospital during the entire VBAC labor with an operating team standing by is hypocritical. If hospitals are so serious about having a team ready to handle VBAC-related emergencies, why would they not want to have the same safety net available to deal with comparable emergency scenarios in “low-risk” women? When I gave birth in a hospital for the first time, I mistakenly assumed that there was an OB and an operating team on hand for those rare emergencies. Why else would I have been in a hospital?

What is most perplexing to me is the mandate that the provider remain in the hospital during a VBAC labor “just in case”, yet other serious causes of perinatal morbidity and mortality are not considered adequate reason to have a surgeon and operating team standing by.  Some examples are:

1. Cord prolapse, with an incidence of 0.14-0.62 percent.  This can cause permanent fetal injury or death.¹
2. Placental abruption, with an incidence of 0.6 percent.  Again, this complication of labor can cause permanent fetal injury or death, as well as potentially life-threatening blood loss for the mother.²
3. Placenta accreta, and its variations (placenta increta and placenta percreta).  With a reported incidence of as many as 1 in 533 births, this is a serious maternal complication which can cause death.³

If we are serious about being able to take immediate action in the event of uterine rupture (approximately 0.5% incidence in low-risk labors VBAC labors), we should be equally serious about being prepared to immediately manage other perinatal emergencies.   The truth is, VBAC is not much riskier than a normal first birth, provided a few criteria are met:

• One low transverse uterine scar
• Normal onset of labor, no cervical ripening or induction
• No use of pitocin augmentation during labor
• Prior vaginal delivery increases chances of successful VBAC
• At least 18 months since cesarean birth

The risk associated with VBAC that concerns hospitals, insurance companies and care providers isn’t just the potential risk to women and babies. They are naturally concerned about the risk to their financial bottom line associated with a potentially predictable obstetric emergency.

The next time you hear anyone try to tell you that patients or laypeople just don’t understand risk, the question should be “The risk to whom?” I would argue that, given accurate information and percentages, most patients understand risk just fine. When you read between the lines, it’s clear that patients are expected to believe that the risk that lies behind scare tactics and lies about necessity of many cesareans and inductions is based on a certain risk to them or their baby. Unfortunately, it often has little or nothing to do with risk to the patient and everything risk to the care provider or institution.

And that’s the risk that most patients do not understand about how decisions are made about their bodies until it’s too late.

Angie’s List Induction-Turned-Cesarean Commercial

Screen cap of laboring woman being rushed to surgery

Transcript of an actual Angie’s List review:

At my 41 week appointment, my OB decided to induce me, but I guess I took longer than he expected because just as I went into hard labor, he told me he was leaving for an important meeting. On his way out, he said goodbye, dressed in his tennis clothes. One hour later, I was getting a c-section… while he was out practicing his serve.

Restriction of Food and Drink in Labor from a Medical Anthropologist’s Perspective

The recent Cochrane review, Restricting oral fluid and food intake during labour, analyzed five studies and concluded that women should be free to eat and drink in labor at will.

Since the evidence shows no benefits or harms, there is no justification for the restriction of fluids and food in labour for women at low risk of complications. No studies looked specifically at women at increased risk of complications, hence there is no evidence to support restrictions in this group of women.

The rationale behind denying laboring women food is that the danger of aspiration and the potentially lethal complication known as Mendelsohn’s syndrome while under general anesthesia is greatly reduced.

Medical anthropologist Robbie Davis-Floyd wrote extensively about the cultural myths about non per os and childbirth in the 1992 book, Birth as an American Rite of Passage. Mendelsohn’s original 1946 article reported several cases of aspiration and subsequent pneumonia, but no deaths. Davis-Floyd cites Baggish’s 1974 study which showed that at most 2 percent of maternal deaths were caused by aspiration under general anesthesia and Scott’s 1978 work that placed the risk of death at 1 in 200,000 women.

So what purpose would denying food and drink to all laboring women serve more than six decades after Mendelsohn’s work and with the great improvements made to regional anesthesia? Davis-Floyd wrote:

According to Feeley-Harnik, “persons undergoing rites of passage are usually prohibited from eating those highly valued foods that would identify them as full members of society” (1981:4). In rites of pregnancy and birth across cultures, food tabus serve the purpose of marking and intensifying the liminal status of the pregnant woman. The pseudo-foods (ice chips and lollipops have no nutritional value) allowed in the hospital are often fed to the laboring woman by her partner as if she herself were the baby, a symbolic process that can heighten her own sense of weakness and dependence.

In a recent article in Birth, Broach and Newton (1988) address the question of why laboring women are still prohibited from eating and drinking in labor in spite of mounting evidence that such prohibitions are medically contraindicated. Pointing out that this custom started in the 1940’s when general anesthesia was widely used for childbirth and the danger from aspiration was therefore higher, they posit that its continuance is the result of “culture lag”—that is, of “culturally patterned behavior that continues to be practiced long after the reasons for doing so have disappeared” (1988:84).

Davis-Floyd views denying food in labor as indicative of the confirmation of a woman’s initiate status as a dependent of the institution.

On the contrary, I would suggest that this custom forms an integral part of the technocratic tapestry of birth in the United States, continuing as routine procedure not because of culture lag but because it serves so well to legitimate and further necessitate the technocratic interventions we investigate here as transformative rituals. To deny a laboring woman access to her own choice of food and drink in the hospital is to confirm her initiatory status and consequent loss of autonomy, to increase the chances that she will require interventions, and to tell her that only the institution can provide the nourishment she needs—a message that is most forcefully conveyed through the “IV.”

Restriction of food and liquids in labor was the subject of many discussions last year following the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists’ press release that women should be allowed “modest amounts” of water and clear liquids in labor, with physicians defending IV use and telling women to calm down their rhetoric and fight for things that matter.

Cesarean Recovery

With the number of cesarean sections increasing in our country annually, many women do not really understand or know that recovering from a cesarean section is much different from a vaginal delivery. After my first cesarean section I learned this the hard way and wish I had a couple tips on making recovery more bearable.  But we often forget that the recovery after a cesarean birth is not just physical, but it is also emotional for a large portion of cesarean section mothers.

The different types of healing to be considered are in the hospital, long term, when you return home with your new baby, and also things you should be aware of such as when to call your health care provider post cesarean. (I also want to thank ICAN and their Recovering from a Cesarean White Paper in aiding to my post today)

While in the hospital :

• Get as much help as you can from family members, your partner, nurses, and other hospital staff. That is what they are there for and during the hours, and days immediately after your surgery, you will need it even if you do not want it.
• Stay hydrated and eat. You may not want to eat, but working on eating a well balanced and healthy diet, as well as staying hydrated (stay away from sugary drinks such as fruit juice and soda) will help to make you start to feel semi human again.
• If private rooms are available opt for one so someone (family member or friend) can stay with you to help you during this time.
• Use a pillow between your legs, and/or on your side to help sleep to be more comfortable. In the days, and even weeks following your cesarean it will not be easy to get comfortable. This is completely normal.  It took me almost a full 2 months to even get comfortable in my own bed at home after my second c-section.
• Take pain medication that is being offered if you are in pain. With my first child, I was breastfeeding and was overly concerned about any of the medications being transfused though my milk so I opted for over the counter pain medication such as motrin instead. But it certainly made my recovery longer, and made taking care of my son harder. (As ICAN recommends, ask your provider about a stool softener, as narcotic pain medication can cause constipation.)
• Get up and walk around.  It may hurt like hell, but it will help to get you back on your feet sooner rather than later. The longer you wait, the more painful it will get up, and the harder it will be.
• The use of a pillow to protect your stomach while coughing, standing up, nursing or moving around in bed is a smart idea.
• Do not hesitate to ask for a lactation consultant in the hospital. Breastfeeding after a cesarean section is more difficult not just for mom because of her incision, but also for baby. Check out the ICAN white paper on Breastfeeding After a Cesarean.

The first couple days in the hospital may feel like you are dying, I know because I have been there, but in most cases, you will only get better. When you get home, there are some more great tips for healing, although your housework may suffer for the first couple weeks, I am sure no one will mind too much.

When you get home :

• Focus on yourself, and your baby. You just had major surgery and your baby needs you.
• Have your partner help/do the household chores. Laundry, dishes, cooking, or anything else that needs to be done. Don’t worry, you can put off the dusting, cleaning the bathroom, mopping, and all the big chores for a couple weeks, your house won’t be mad at you!
• Do not lift anything that is heavier than your baby for at least 4-6 weeks. Those infant carriers/carseats are tempting to pick up, especially when going to an appointment for you or your baby, but stay away from it. You do not want to hurt yourself, or have an extended recovery.
• Ask others for help. If you have older children it may be helpful for your partner to take some time off from work, or have an available family member come over to help you. During the first weeks after my second cesarean section my toddler not only got the flu, but I was the only person he wanted making it difficult on me because I could not pick him up.
• Take it slow!  Get back into your normal household routine over a long period of time. You do not want to over do it because you will certainly pay for it later on.
• Have access to baby stuff such as diapers, bottles, burp cloths, wipes, or whatever you and your baby need for a couple hours in several places around the house. If your bed is the only place you are comfortable, make sure you can set yourself up to be able to hang out with baby, change diapers, and everything else you need right there.
• Co-Sleep!  Room in with your baby, so when it comes time for midnight feedings, you do not need to get up or go far to take care of your little one.
• If you have school age children, have others help to prepare their lunches, lay out clothes for the next day and anything else that needs to be done. To spend quality time, sit on the couch, or someplace comfortable and assist them with their home work, or read a book. Find ways to spend time other than anything that may put a physical strain on you.
• Considering hiring a post partum doula. They can really be heaven sent in a post cesarean situation!
• Don’t push yourself. If you want to take a shower and get dressed for the day, make that your only goal for the day.
• Pajamas are your best friend. They are comfortable, and help to remind others you are still recovering from major surgery.
• Remember how important it is to continue to remain well hydrated, and eating healthy.

Many do not think of the long term or emotional recovery of a cesarean section. I personally did not even encounter the emotional recovery until my cesarean baby was 3 months old. Be gentle on yourself, you aren’t the first to go through this, but many people around you may treat your feelings like nothing because cesarean sections have become so common. I can’t tell you how the phrase “a healthy baby is all that matters” feels to me still today.  Do not let others discount your feelings on your experience.

For your long term recovery…

• Contact your local ICAN (International Cesarean Awareness Network) chapter. These are women who have been there, and done that and know how you feel and what you are going through. They are an excellent support system internationally and are such a huge blessing for many mothers. I know they were to me!
• Write out a birth story, express your feelings on paper, or on a blog, get it out. Keeping your feelings inside may be harder in the long run.
• Keep your baby as close to you as possible for as long as you can.

If you experience any of the following symtoms or problems, you should contact your care provider immediately.

• Any type of bleeding from your incision.
• Leaking, redness, or any type of fluids coming from your incision.
• If your pain does not decrease over time.
• Symptoms of post partum depression such as anxiety, fear, problems sleeping, depression, or anything else you may equate with something more than just the baby blues.
• Cramping or pain in your arms or legs that will not go away.
• Continuous headaches, migraines, or backaches.

Over all, be gentle on yourself.
You just went through major surgery!

Loyally Devoted to Doctor

I recently read the book The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine N Aron, Ph.D. In the chapter called Medics, Medication, and Highly Sensitive People, the author states:

“Keep in mind, too, that it is common to feel an attachment to anyone you have been with during an arousing experience, especially if it was a truly painful or emotionally significant ordeal. In the medical realm you hear these sorts of extra feelings when people describe their surgeon or women talk about the person who delivered their child, which is perfectly normal. The solution is simply to know why it happens and compensate for it appropriately.”

In the chapter about relationships, she talks about studies that were done that showed people are far more likely to fall in love under stressful circumstances. She applied this phenomenon to attachment in all relationships, not just romantic relationships. Later when I read the above statement in the medical chapter, so many things started to make sense to me.

Why do women love their maternity care provider, even when they may have done unnecessary procedures on them and not allowed them to make their own choices? Why do many providers use scare tactics? Why do women hold so adamantly to the belief that their provider “saved their life” or “saved their baby” or “was a great doctor” or “really took good care of me”, even when evidence to the contrary is right in front of them? Why do they fail to make important connections, such as that their c-section may have been one of the many unnecessary ones, or that there may not have been a true evidence based need for their induction? Why is childbirth treated like a major emergency with so much fear and anxiety around it? Why aren’t all women who give birth in this system severely traumatized from it, and instead defend and adore their doctors? The answer is simple: the culture of fear that surrounds childbirth actually endears women to their doctors. It cements the relationship between women, their doctors, and the hospitals their doctors practice at. It ensures that the women will keep coming back, and will recommend their providers to all their friends as they speak about them in glowing heroic terms. It is quite brilliant really, providers and hospitals have found the key to running a very successful business, and it has nothing to do with allowing women to make their own choices. They simply have to give the illusion prenatally that the woman can make her own choices for her birth, and then make sure that the actual experience of birth is one filled with fear, anxiety, and of course a healthy baby, and then the narcissistic provider will come out looking like roses to the woman who must endure the “horrors of childbirth”.

Of course, I am not really giving the doctors the benefit of the doubt here. They likely don’t know on a conscious level what they are really doing. They have been trained to act this way, by people who were also trained to act this way, and it is reinforced for them every time a woman profusely thanks her doctor for a job well done, and every time a woman tells her birth horror story where the good doctor makes an appearance as the hero who delivers her baby to her despite all the dangers that presented at the last minute. Both the woman and the doctor seem ignorant of the psychological effects that framing every average birth as a medical emergency creates.

In the statement above, the author states: “it is common to feel an attachment to anyone you have been with during an arousing experience, especially if it was a truly painful or emotionally significant ordeal.” This describes childbirth perfectly. The word “arousing” here is referring to sensory levels. That can mean physically, emotionally, sexually, or any other assault to the senses, good or bad, that can be had. We know childbirth can be described as “arousing” in many ways. It is also inherently “painful” and “emotionally significant”. Even when women use drugs, there is still some level of pain before she took them, and depending on what type of drugs she took, she may still experience pain while she is taking them. So really, all births fit this criteria. Births in a hospital, or at home, or in a birth center all have these same basic elements. It seems women are wired to form an attachment to the people who were with her and helped her through the event. This could be her partner, her doula, her midwife, her doctor, her nurse, or her friend or relative. I think this type of attachment likely had an evolutionary purpose at one time. It would be ideal to attach to an older, wiser woman who assisted with the delivery of babies who would have been there to care for the mom postpartum, and to slowly help her to bond and form an attachment to the baby. This wise woman would then help the mother learn to breastfeed and care for her new infant, while slowly pulling back her own attentions from the situation. This is what we have in homebirth midwives today. How would our ancestors have fared if a man had shown up in the tribe to deliver a baby, and then disappeared immediately afterward? The woman would be left adoring him, yet not having help from him to form an attachment to her infant. Never learning how to breastfeed or other infant care skills. What would have become of humanity? What is becoming of humanity?

Midwives and doulas seem to understand this phenomenon. Doulas usually visit a woman once or twice postpartum and are available if she needs to talk or has questions about the baby, breastfeeding, or the birth. Midwives start seeing a woman more and more as the birth approaches, and then once the baby is born, they start to taper off again, seeing her less and less until she is no longer needed at all. This is a much more natural and appropriate response to caring for a woman during such a pivotal transition in her life. What happens when women see doctors or CNM’s in hospitals though? They are likely seeing a practice, not a specific provider. They will likely not give birth with the same doctor or CNM they saw prenatally. They may never see the same doctor or CNM again after they give birth, or perhaps just once at the six week checkup. How does this affect women emotionally, or in her relationship with her baby, when instead of having a slow winding away from her provider, there is just an abrupt ending to the relationship? Does this interfere with breastfeeding, or affect feelings of trauma related to the birth, or feelings of depression related to her new role as mother? It is ingrained in our psyche to attach to these people who help us through such a major event in our life. How will the people we choose handle this responsibility? Are we choosing someone who will corrupt our experience and force an unnatural attachment to them by creating more anxiety around the experience? Are we choosing someone who will be there for us days, weeks, and months later to answer our questions about the baby or to offer us emotional support? Will the person we choose even be available for the birth, and will we ever see them again afterward?

Now I realize why other women feel the way they do about their provider. I did not attach to my provider, I was instead extremely traumatized by her actions. I still wonder why some women are traumatized, and others fall in love with their providers, given the same set of circumstances. I wonder if it is actually more natural, and thus common, to attach to a provider even when (or perhaps especially when) that provider creates an atmosphere of fear. It makes sense then why so few of us are speaking up about the system and the way women are treated. It makes sense that women are extremely loyal to their providers, even when many aspects of their births were disappointing or upsetting to them. It makes sense that many women are reluctant to accept that there is anything wrong with maternity care. It makes sense why the maternity care system is so hard to change and is met with so much resistance from every side.

What can birth activists do to help women form healthy attachments during this transitional time in her life? It may be tempting to try to convince all women to have a homebirth with a midwife since we know that they are probably the best option for healthy attachments and a healthy weaning away as well, however, if a woman has already formed a strong attachment to a certain provider, it may be more realistic to recommend having a doula. A doula will be there prenatally, for the birth, and postpartum, and therefore can provide much of the physical and emotional support that new moms need and deserve. Some moms may hire a doula, yet keep her same provider that she has formed an attachment to, and others may find that a doula is a stepping stone to having a homebirth the next time. One day I hope that maternity care shifts to being centered around the mother again, and not around the provider and his schedule or routine.

Why Our Women are Afraid of Birth

Deliver Me

It is Tuesday, at 10pm while I settle in after getting my little ones to bed. I flip through the channels and settle on discovery healthy which is a personal favorite of mine, but it really has only recently become a favorite because of shows like I didn’t know I was pregnant. It fascinates me that women could make it though a full term pregnancy and not know they were pregnant, but that is just me, and the experiences that I had with my children is what makes me wonder how the heck women could not know they were pregnant.  But that is completely besides my point today.
So as I watch this show, I am noticing a trend. High risk, high risk, high risk, previous cesarean section, scheduled cesarean section, high risk, healthy first time mother, scheduled cesarean, high risk. Well I mean, that is how it is in Los Angeles right?  You would think so!  But apparently because only these crazy, scary, uncommon births make something called ratings, that is all they are going to feature on TV. Because in reality, no one wants to watch a natural birth or a home birth because no one is running around with a scalpel screaming about the emergency that childbirth is. Nor is the mother screaming for her epidural because she just cant deal with the pain of the 3 hours of labor so far.
But what we should be thinking about most importantly is the message this is sending. What is this teaching first time mothers or even young women that may not be planning on having children soon but will some day?  It is teaching them how scary, dangerous, and medical birth is supposed to be. But is that really how birth is? Of course not. Anyone who has taken the time to read the studies, and just not follow what mainstream society thinks is the right way to handle pregnancy will know that birth is not scary or dangerous or a huge emergency. While it can be in some cases, in most cases it can and will be beautiful when just left alone.

When a woman becomes pregnant today, if they do not already have an Obstetrician they have been seeing for well women care since 16, or whatever age their parent decided it was the right them for them, what is the first thing that they do? They ask around their circle of female friends for the best Doctor out there because isn’t that what we all want? We want the one who is the BMW of pre natal care. Little do women know that they are really going to end up with the 1990 Dodge Dynasty when they take this route because hands off is better.
But because our society has told us this is the way things should be, they run off like lemmings right off the cliff of medical interventions landing in the valley of cesarean sections.

Maybe if the television channels like Discovery health followed a dozen home births or even aired The Business of Being Born they could get a popular, and controversial other side to what they are constantly airing. Maybe it will boost their ratings even more, maybe not?  But what it will do is give the other side of the whole issue. Let’s get Marsden Wagner to do a half hour special on Birth in The United States and see how many women run off to the midwives.  Instead they air these disgustingly inaccurate “Freebirthing” shows. They find the one idiot who is going to make women who choose unassisted birth look like a bunch of uneducated yokels.  Which is exactly what they did with their special on Unassisted birth.

I guess in the end, like anything else the television airs, it is biased and we shouldn’t expect much different.

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The Infamous Cascade Chart

As someone strongly involved in the birth community, this is probably one of my favorite pictures floating around the internet that I run across every once and a while.? One day when I find out the person who actually put these thoughts and cascade of interventions into a physical chart to view, I am going to kiss them!

I have always loved how it starts with induction, because lets face it, so many women today are starting their labors with some kind of artificial labor stimulant. Whether it be pitocin, or the oh so dangerous cytotec. I can personally say I have been the victim of the cascade myself with my first child. Had I seen this before my pregnancy with him, I would have never opted for the induction. Many do not realize that induction in many cases will fail, almost half of the time according to the most recent figures, and when I quote that, I am quoting Robbie Davis Floyd in a 2008 interview, I believe it was in Pregnant in America but my birth/pregnancy movies and interviews all start to blur together when you watch so many of them. These babies are not ready to be born in many cases, especially when we are seeing these inductions before the “due date” or the 40 week gestation mark. Although we know that “due dates” aren’t much to put stock into, many women and providers use them as some type of eviction date, which history has shown to be a pretty bad idea. No one is going to be pregnant forever and many women left alone will go into labor on their own. Now granted, there are cases that induction is medically necessary and for these special cases, I am completely thankful. Without induction these women would be subjected to cesarean sections instead of labor inductions which could in turn be even more hard on their body, and experience over all.
What we do not understand with the induction of labor is, we are creating unnaturally strong contractions in attempt to simulate something similar to natural labor. As someone who has experienced pitocin labor, and natural labor, I would take a million natural contractions over being on the receiving end of pitocin again. The comparison in my opinion is not even in the same ball park. Another issue with these contractions as most know, is the fact that they are more likely to cause fetal distress on the baby because they are not natural contractions or what normal contractions are supposed to be. So in turn we are putting our children under unnecessary stress. Especially if they are not ready to come and join us in “our world” yet. Again something I learned with my first.
Then we have the provider who comes in and looks at the fetal heart monitoring and says, “Oh No! Your baby is in danger!!” So off to the operating room we go for an “emergency” cesarean which in reality was caused by the pitocin to begin with. You would think by this point there would be a bit of common sense in the Obstetric community to say, ya know, I think we are causing these actions instead of blaming the increasing cesarean rate on “patient choice cesareans” which only make up 3% at most of the incredibly high cesarean rate in our country.

But a cesarean is only one path that this induction cascade can lead to. There are still women out there that will have a vaginal delivery when subjected to a labor induction, but in turn these women have greater risks for other procedures including episiotomies which have all in all been proven to really have little to no benefit to women in the long run. While episiotomy rates are starting to decrease, they are still over used in many communities. For example, here in my state of Connecticut, some hospitals have an over 25% episiotomy rate, when science tells us there really shouldn’t be over 10%. Trying to obtain these numbers are like pulling teeth too FYI!

We also have vaccum extraction. I had never really discussed this or spoken with someone who experienced this until I met my Chiropractor in the summer of 2008. He was discussing with me why Chiropractic care in infants is important, and then he described his own daughters birth, they had applied the vaccum to the top of her head, and while “assisting” her out, they pulled so hard the vaccum literally flew right off of her head. My Chiropractor described it so vividly… “I thought her HEAD popped RIGHT OFF! I was horrified to even look!”? My heart broke for him because no parent should have to go through that kind of fright during the birth of their child!

These all often lead to epidurals, which especially if you are going to have a cesarean section, you will either have this or a spinal block. All types of anesthesia that will have a direct impact on the baby. Although I have experienced women told there will be no effects on their baby at all.
I am sure most know about the “breast crawl” and I can say after watching a baby who’s mother did have an epidural, as opposed to a mom who had a natural birth, there is no comparing the instincts of the baby. While I had epidurals with both of my children, I didn’t have the opportunity to breastfeed then until they were a little over an hour old. My first was almost 2 hours. For more information on epidural effects on babies, click this link!

The last thing I want to touch on is the separation of mother and baby after a cesarean section which is very common. It is pretty uncommon for an newborn to be allowed to stay in the OR with mom, although it does happen sometimes. I can really related to the lack of bonding, breastfeeding problems, and reduced bonding because of this because I deeply experienced this with the births of both of my children. While I bonded, it was not that “instant motherly love” I am sure most feel. It hurts me to this day to know that my bonding was an almost learned bonding because I knew as a mother it was something I needed to do in order to protect my babies.? While most women who have had cesarean sections are not quick to admit this, I think by discussing this and acknowledging that this is a true problem it will only help to improve it for others in the long run. I also noticed that mothers who do experience this may be ashamed or fearful to admit this because it make portray them in a less than perfect light, or maybe others may look down on them because of this, but they should not be ashamed. It happens and there is nothing we can do about it but help other women to not go through what we did!

Be empowered by your birth, no matter how you birth!
If it is a bad experience, help to educate others so they do not go through what you did, so they can avoid the pain or heartache you have dealt with!

Why Did I Move During Labor?

I never knew the importance of moving around during labor until I was actually in labor with my second child. With my first I was strapped to a bed, a fetal monitor, and pitocin, so I never really had the option of moving around.

My second time around I realized why it was so important. When I would have a contraction, if I moved, rocked, walked, it would help the pain. Sitting in one spot, tensing up, screaming, or clenching onto something all made the contraction itself a million times worse. As my labor progressed, I realized this. Which helped me to “ride the wave” which is how I looked at getting over my contractions. I pictured them as a giant wave that I must surf over in order to get closer to my baby. As the time went on, and boy what a long labor I had, I realized the more movement the less pain.

The modern form of maternity care, which keeps women in one position, place, or hooked up to machines is what is causing the fear of pain in society today. Because woman’s friends, and family members are routinely going through this kind of system, it is becoming the tell tale so much more.

Until there is a change in how hospitals deal with birth, women are going to continue to think birth is the end of the world because they are not being allowed to move or be active while in labor, when in the end, it does way more good, than it does harm.

Move, Walk Around & Change Positions Throughout Labor

Moving in labor is something that we don’t often think about these days.? After all, if you give birth in a US hospital, you walk in and see a bed.? If you were following the live birth on the Internet the other night, we were all amazed at the size of the room (it was small) and it was the VIP room!? What did you see prominently featured in the center?? he bed, of course.? Unfortunately freedom of movement in labor has come to mean, you can lay on your right or your left side.

I’m here to tell you that moving around in labor helps a lot.? When my leg hurts, I shake it out, I stand up and move, changing how I put pressure on it.? When my back hurts, I stretch, bend and fold until the pain subsides.? Labor pain is no different.? And yet by restricting movement we take away a woman’s freedom to alleviate that pain without medications.

Now, some hospitals will claim that they are not actively restricting movement of their laboring patients.? And while we do not hand cuff women to their beds very often anymore, we do tether them with physical items like IV poles and fetal monitoring equipment.? Then add the psychological aspects of the bed and being a good patient and throw in a poorly designed hospital gown that shows your buns at every turn and you’ve got a woman who is more likely to stay in bed.

So here are my tips for freedom of movement:

• Begin this discussion early and often with your practitioner. Ask lots of questions that can only be answered with open responses.? “Can I move?”? elicits the answer: “Sure!”? But you’re thinking hands and knees, squatting and roaming the halls and? your practitioner is thinking, on your back and sitting up. Try something like, “What positions have you seen women give birth or labor in?”? You might also try, “What positions do you recommend for pain relief in labor?”

• Tour the hospital or birth center. Other than a bed, what can they provide you to help you move?? Do they have birth balls?? Do they offer an early labor garden or path? These hospital tours are given in groups or in private.? Try both if you can.

• Exercise and practice. Just as with anything, if your body isn’t ready to use muscles that are required to squat, you’re not going to be very successful at doing so. It will also help you and your partner feel more comfortable as the movements become familiar to you and your body.

• What tips would you add?

For more information on this healthy birth practice, you can see:

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